THE AWARENESS. 



The fast and unbelievable growth of Technologies have changed a lot of changes among us. Every person has divided their own way and challenged to face every situations by their own. Every one of us are busy in our own kind of works and we mainly have forgot our responsibilities. We have grown selfish including me itself. Blaming others to the fault we did, is not fair. I have gone through many articles and researches and the only reason I see back of every crimes and the ones who are shown as victims is the “lack of knowledge”, which is mainly everyone should know like the difference between good and bad touch, the menstrual periods, pregnancy period and so on. I know that many of us think how can we say all these to our loved ones, our kids and to other beloved ones. But it is the love, the true love when we also clarify these kind of topics among our kids, from their small age itself. We feel shy, shamed to talk all these to our kids. Yes, that is the exact point, the moment which we leave a fault, and our kid's future later destroys. There is nothing bad here to talk these with our kids. Feel free to talk and aware them. Keep your relationship strong between every members of your family, Father with son, daughter, Mother with her kids and so on.


Every relationships between us as parents, daughters, son, are valuable. Family is the basic state of a society which grows good or bad. 


The kids are like clay. We, adults, are the one those who have to mould our children the way which they need to travel. So, it's our responsibility to grow our child as a brave, strong citizen which is important for the world to move on. 


When we feel shy to talk these kinds of matter especially what is bad touch, the difference between bad and good touch? And how to identify that and all, this small fault we leave here end into a big tragedy. 


As the growth of technologies and modern inventions, they have crossed relationship bond and broken them into pieces. So, among all these, growing a child is a very difficult task. As we are busy running our lives and working for that, We sometimes cannot watch our children all the time. But if we make clear about the things which our society is shy to say, we are the saviours of our kids.


I have seen my friend say, as she is a girl, she has faced so many things like this while traveling or else in other workplaces. I ask her why dont you tell all these to your parents or the ones who you believe most But her reply made me worried and think about the state of our society. She told me, “Oh! What are you talking? How can I say all these to my parents and others, I feel shy and guilty to talk about this. 


I don't know what to reply her Because I was angry with the view of my society. I think that there would be many friends who do not tell this and hide inside them especially girls. They feel that the society will see them in the wrong way as a culprit. Yes, it happens too. 


This article is mainly written for girls especially. Because if we consider about abuse, kidnaps and so on. Girls are the main victim who suffer with lots of pain and sorrow. The same country which celebrates Mother's Day, Women's Day is also the same country which is also a place to be in such wrong doings and to abuses. We have to change this. Everyone should stand still in this mission. 


And I kindly ask every parent and guardian to feel free to talk about these tragedies and give your kids a proper awareness from young age itself. Not only about good or bad touch, But also about the hidden truth of women's life, such as the Menstrual period times, the pregnancy period to the one who are suitable to understand this. There is nothing bad here to get ashamed or shy to talk to your kids about this.  


If a parent gets shy or shame to talk or let a younger one knows about this, then who will tell or aware them about this?. Just think about this my dear friends. If not the kids may even go in a wrong way as because to know all these. They may even use the phones or other modern devices to a wrong way. And at last we will be the main reason to spoil our child's life. Research tells us from the age of 5 years old, the kid is understandable and capable to divide the good and bad things. So If your son or daughter comes to a well understandable age, let them know all these, ask them to face bravely every situation. If you earlier let them know all these, then they will be more careful and will never let any wrong ones approach them. Everything depends on us, as adults. It is in our hands, to mould our children's future.

I think many brave young ladies will raise hereafter and break the wrong thoughts of the society. This article may help you all get refreshed, and motivated too. Let’s keep a step forward in this mission. I am sure that the key growth, the introduction of higher dimensions of consciousness, and more than this, the first step to a change is only Awareness.